Growing Up

growing up, it's something that everybody will go through it. and between those phrases we'll go through, that's something called heartache. something that in the end will make us stronger than before. it's not always about love. maybe it's just disappointment about your work result, maybe it's because you've ruined all of your hard work, maybe it's because our friend left you for the better friend. or maybe it's people's judgement for you.

yes, we all have been through it. we feel like we'd rather die than live in this miserable life. don't lie on me, i know you sometimes, though just in your heart, feels like that. feeling that everything has changed but we couldn't catch them. we couldn't adapt ourselves to the new world. we couldn't sincerely accept the fact that everything has change. we're no more those kids who're waiting for our parents to solve our problems. we're no longer those kids who can stop our tears just because our parents gives us a bar of an ice cream.

but guess what ? life doesn't end up the way we think it will. life gives us some little hurdles on every phrase we'll go through. we just need to find a way to handle our emotion, how to put aside our ego so everything doesn't need to end up badly. so everything back to normal, back to how it suppose to be. back to how we remember it used to be.

get up, stand up, suggest yourself to turn everything to be okay. cause i know deep down your heart, you still believe that everything will turn out to be okay, it just a matter of time. just take a deep breathe, take a long break, take a lil' time for yourself. just to make yourself happy, not for someone else. forgive yourself for everything you've done. for every single line you've said.

yes, we're having a bad time now, but life isn't always about that bad time. remember that you were and will having good times too. when life drag you into the grief. smile to life and say thank you, cause life has just turn you into the better you, the stronger you, and the smarter you. because when life gives you the same hurdle, you know exactly what to do and how to handle it. :-)

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